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我们目前正在经历的“开关”(11 - 13),我们的女儿是过渡从甜蜜的公主曾经是深思熟虑的,爱和体贴....嗯…。别人完全,我们仍然热爱这个陌生人,但这需要一些时间来调整=)。我听说我们可以拿回我们的甜蜜的爱的人16岁到21岁但哇loooong时间等。叹息…。这就是生活…所以…。SNAPCHAT审查!当我们注意到我们的女儿变得活跃的网上,越来越的态度每个人我们开始研究她的网上活动,我必须说,我很高兴我们做到了。她诅咒,让性文章标签从她11岁的朋友,说性的事情青少年YouTube的心悸动她指示通过请求他们做大众痴迷的女孩(她不知道,但它真的很差)…。 The list goes on, she wasn't doing drugs or getting sexual thankfully but it was a path that she could go down. So we intervened and we continue to do so. I am not saying we examine every single post or message but a glance here and there doesn’t hurt and in our case it was a wakeup call. OK, so that was Twitter, YouTube and Instagram activity. Why do I mention this? What's the point man!? I'm glad you asked! It's because those were all social media sites and messages that we could monitor if we chose to and act accordingly. THAT IS NOT THE CASE WITH SNAPCHAT! POOF EVERY MESSAGE VANISHES IN SECONDS AFTER IT HAS BEEN LOOKED AT! Snapchat messages photos, videos, and text messages disappear after 5 to 10 seconds by default! It takes away a parents ability to insure that their child isn't making the wrong choices online and gives a child 100% privacy and freedom to say whatever he/she wants, take a picture or video of whatever he/she wants TO whoever he/she wants and vice versa. And YOU as a parent will never know if what is being sent is good, silly, bad or horrible. You won't know if they are sexting or getting bullied…. I think you get the picture here. And before you say no way not my kid! Think twice! We thought the same about our Precious Daughter! When we have talked to other parents that have discovered what their precious innocent child was doing online they were all very shocked… They didn’t think it would happen to them either! We were young once too but the margin for error has increased 10,000 fold and extends to the entire world! Not just the kids on your neighborhood block. Protect your kids. Don’t give into these social media trends. Just because all of their friends have it doesn’t mean we as parents have to say YES! We are allowed to say No! I am not saying we examine every single post but a glance here and there doesn’t hurt and in our case it was a wakeup call. I know a 15 to 16 year old teenager who shared a nude with her boyfriend that he could have shared with the whole school and online ahem… aka the world. And I have to say I would never think this girl would ever do something so dumb… Trust is something that is earned and something you can never verify with an app like Snapchat. So Snapchat is not something I will trust in the hands of my teenager. Has our daughter done anything horrible on Snapchat? I honestly have a hard time believing she ever would, but I will never know and that’s my point…..

我认为这是一个很好的电影。它给了伟大的例子,cyber-bulling,之后做了什么单词。从开始到结尾。我一直欺负从小学到高中一年级之前我说些什么,自己拿起。我等待的时间太长,不要等待发言并得到你应得的帮助之前真的像我一样不好。永远不会太迟。别让他们把你下来,沮丧,使你想做坏事。(自我伤害)(自杀)这是不值得的。你是太好了。所以,请请帮助你所需要的,不要等待。