我在你面前

剧透!在我看来，这部电影本可以成为一个很好的机会，在生活的困难中传递希望和爱的信息。但事实并非如此。如今我们生活在一个自由的时代，无论是否在轮椅上挣扎，每个选择都是个人的和主观的。即使是结束自己生命的艰难选择也不能被评判，只能被接受。在这种自由中，选择活或不活是战斗与放弃的终极边界。这部电影传达的信息是，坐在轮椅上的生活是没有价值的。这绝对不是真的。轮椅上的生活确实比正常人更艰难，但残疾人无论如何都能找到幸福。想想现实生活中的一些例子。 My favourite is Alex Zanardi. He won when he was a driver and he won even after having lost his legs. Listen to him talking is really enlightening. Outside, in the real world, there are a lot of these 4wheels-heroes. Maybe some of them have thought about suicide, but I think that the greater part of them decided to fight against the world to reach their dreams. Coming back to the movie, there is an off-key point: when love arrives, so nice and so pure, you really believe it will adjust everything. Then, at the end, you will find that the title is perfect. But I think that real love is not selfish. Real love is not "me before you" but is "you before me" and it is effective only if we think in this way togheter. Ending the movie with a different message could have been an opportunity to send a positive message about the strength of love that can help you coming out from a strong and difficult situations. With real love near you, even facing the daily hard reality can give you wings to reach your dreams.

虽然卢和威尔的爱情故事感人甜蜜，让我这样无助的浪漫情人不止一次哭泣，但这个故事也暗示，如果一个人残疾，生命就不值得活下去，并将自杀宣传为无私而不是可怕的事情。我有过自杀的经历，我可以向你保证，这不是那种事。总的来说，这是一部可爱的电影，也是消磨时间的好方法，但我不太喜欢它展示的一些信息。