家长评价变红

当然适合大一点的孩子。如果你的孩子意识到这些变化或者你准备好解释的话，多次提到月经期和垫期会更好。女儿13岁了，开始纠结于她和妈妈的关系。我认为它美化了不听话。作为一个成年人，我认为最好是诚实，做你自己，但我的孩子们只是认为坏行为很酷。

首先，我想说的是:任何谈论4个男孩组成一个乐队的影评人都没有认真看过电影，当他们把如此简单的细节都搞错时，我很难相信他们的评论。话虽如此，我并不喜欢这部电影。我和我的孩子们一起看，一个7岁的女儿和一个11岁的儿子。是的，他们对“垫子”是什么有疑问。是的，我觉得她画那个可爱男孩的场景有点不舒服。可能是因为动画师一开始对我们隐瞒了她画的东西。照片很奇怪，但我以为它们会更……露骨?所以，没什么大不了的。妈妈和前面提到的可爱男孩之间的对峙看起来很尴尬，因为那感觉像是一个非常成熟、非常严肃的问题。但说实话，那之后一切都很好。 We learned that yes, we can put too much pressure on our kids. We learned that kids are kids and will experience peer pressure, will disobey, will lie—guys, come on. We are not raising perfect angels, and if you think you are, YOU ARE THE MOM IN THIS MOVIE. The movie examines the relationship between mother and child, and between friends. It shows how damaged relationships can be repaired. It shows that we as parents need to give our kids freedoms; if we are overbearing, it will cause more rebellion. It shows kids how to manage their emotions. Are there are weird parts to this movie? Sure. But the weirdest thing is seeing the straight up fear-mongering “this movie teaches your kid to disobey” reviews. Kids know how to disobey; this movie shows the grace required to repair a relationship after that happens.

昨晚和我的家人一起看了这部电影，说实话，我觉得它令人沮丧。这部电影有很多有趣的地方，动画也很华丽，但我觉得它传达的信息有问题，对它的目标观众来说是拙劣的。美美是一个13岁的孩子，有一个专横的母亲。在整部电影中，她通过不诚实和背地里不服从父母，找到了应对这种情况的方法。从本质上讲，这并不是一个不可思议的情节点，因为在我成长的过程中，我有几个朋友也做过同样的事情。然而，母亲并没有最终将角色人性化，也没有带来角色之间的沟通与和解，而是始终是一个对手;美美选择过自己的生活，这让她远离了与母亲的关系(在电影中的一个关键场景中，她承认了这一点)。对于一个13岁的孩子来说，这一切似乎非常不现实。抛开这些奇特的仪式不谈，每个13岁的孩子都会觉得父母太霸道;那只是成长的一部分。 However, this movie pushes a theme that it's okay to disregard your parents rules and advice because you need to follow your own heart. Again, I can see what they're trying to say here, but it's not a great message to be telling such a young audience. In my mind, when you are living in your parent's household, you need to respect them and obey their rules. But, Mei Mei calling to her mom "my panda, my choice" in order to completely shut down a concern her mom has...that's just flipping the script and putting her mom in a place of having no say. It's not showing a relationship with open communication or reconciliation, just a power shift. Another thing, kids are very prone to imitate catchphrases and play out scenes in movies. If a young kid sees that a beloved movie character is rewarded for disobedience and complete disregard of her parents advice and concerns, that's going to set up a toxic mindset for how they approach relationships and conflict with their parents. Instead of working it out with open communication and understanding, the "my panda, my choice" mentality completely shuts down a healthy relationship. I also just find it disheartening that the overall message was "in order to be yourself you have to completely break away from your parents." Again, especially for a 13-year-old to be saying this is extremely concerning as always following your prepubescent heart with complete disregard to the rules of your elders will eventually get you into some sticky and regretful situations. Bottom line: I find it hard to imagine a young audience being able to understand and enjoy such a heavy-handed movie. Although it has several fun moments and characters, its message is something that would be more applicable to a character turning 19, not 13.

畏缩! !皮克斯怎么了?没想到在让孩子们看你的电影之前我还得先预览一下。这部电影有很多令人毛骨悚然、尴尬的时刻，还有很多父母试图引导孩子远离的东西。撒谎，欺骗，偷偷摸摸。这不是一个好的皮克斯。

在我看来，这部电影的内容对年轻人来说太成熟了，但对了解性和生理期的孩子来说还可以。而不仅仅是一部“人变动物”的搞笑电影。

我对这部电影没有太多期待，我还是很失望。我的孩子们也不喜欢这部电影。我13岁的儿子说这是“浪费时间”。我11岁的女儿特别期待在Disney plus上的发行，但她非常失望。这部电影有一些粗略的信息，我可能会建议提前放映。主角偷偷溜出家门，桀骜不驯，电影似乎在积极地塑造这些事情，如果你不打算和孩子们就这种行为进行对话，这可能会传递出错误的信息。

很多关于性和反抗父母的主题。准备好适当地向你的孩子解释这些

这是一部令人愉快的电影，它非常巧妙地探索了成长过程中内在的紧张关系，既要成为自己，又要成为父母想象中的那个人。我喜欢它把迷恋、情绪激动和月经正常化的方式。我的孩子们很喜欢;我认为它非常适合9-12岁的孩子，他们一直认为自己远离所有乱糟糟的青少年，但他们意识到这实际上就在眼前。

一些抓珍珠的评论是可笑的。“提到经期”……严重吗?一旦你的孩子长到8-10岁，你就应该和他们讨论月经问题。女孩们需要听到这句话，因为这有助于消除她们即将经历的过程的神秘感(而且有相当一部分人可能会比平均时间更早到达那个时间……你应该在那之前准备好!)和男孩需要听到它，因为他们经常是白痴，他们应该知道它，所以他们不是白痴。这部电影适合所有8岁的孩子吗?不，连9岁都没有。我认为对大多数10岁及以上的孩子来说都没问题。但它的主题很棒。 Yes, it demonstrates the mom in a bad light. She's kind of a crappy person so it SHOULD demonstrate the mom in a bad light. The movie is as much for overbearing tiger moms (and don't think for a second that it's only Chinese parents who are like that) as it is for kids. Instead, this movie is a terrific opportunity to talk with your kids, at a time that's appropriate for them, about teenage rebellion, parental and familial expectations, becoming your own person and how there's smart ways to choose to do that (such as finding positive friends that you like, even if your mom doesn't) and bad ways to choose to do that (sneaking out and going to a party with no parents around when you're too young to be doing that). Whether y'all like it or not, your kids are either thinking like this or WILL be thinking like this, and if you are overcontrolling them or believing they aren't, you really should stop and watch the flick and wonder which character in it you ARE. Would you rather have a kid who trusts and talks to you, or sneaks around? Talking about it beforehand with the kid makes it less likely to happen if you lay out that you don't want it to happen AND you don't make it necessary by being too harsh.

总体来说是一部令人失望的电影。在听到评论后，我们很兴奋地看到了它，但遗憾的是它没有我们希望的那么好。绝对适合年长的观众。虽然这部电影想要传达的思想已经呈现出来，但它严重缺乏可信度。遗憾的是…这部电影鼓励孩子们不服从/不尊重父母(即使父母犯了错误)。这真的不是我们的菜。