乔·弗格森
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2020年5月3日以来的成员
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2020年5月3日
Instagram严格的父母
我有2个孩子,一个女儿谁14岁,一个儿子谁16。我记得有一个谈话和我的古老的约11时。他说他所有的朋友了。我做了一些我自己的研究,告诉他,他需要12。。尽管会有一些规则,他的妈妈我也跟着他的账户。我们不希望他浪费了很多时间。Instagram确实使时间飞,我们不希望他成为一个贱民,但我们希望他不要浪费太多的时间。他有一个屏幕时间限制每天2小时;Instagram /游戏/ Youtube / Netflix都是混合。通常我们不会关心他分裂,但游戏大脑尽管Instagram没有好处。 The maximum amount he could ever spend on it was 35 minutes. And we checked every week. He did go over it sometimes so we had to reinforce the rules and suspend it once in a while. He is now 16 and still follows the rules. As parents we tend to underestimate kids, if you clearly state rules and punishments, they will follow. With my daughter I was worried about creeps. I was worried about the bad people getting to communicate with her. I let her get Instagram for her 14th birthday, we had very strict rules for her. She could follow only her friends and celebs. NO STRANGERS. Strangers could follow her because teens want followers but, she could only follow her friends. We made it clear to her that if someone started flirting with her over Instagram, and she didnt know them, it was not ok. We wanted her not to be scared of us forcing her to delete it so that was not an option. What I've learned from friends children is that if you do not let your child use it, they will use it on their own terms ignoring you. That opens many bad doors, its better to let them know that we are allowing them, not that they are doing it themselves. After all, how long can parents control their kid. Instagram is a double sided sword. Used wisely it can be a good tool. Used unwisely, could lead to problems. As parents that's where we come in, don't be afraid to take their phone without warning and check it. Before giving them Instagram lay out the rules. My rules are; 1. Strangers can follow, but no conversations with them. 2. Parents follow the account to see what stuff they post. 3. Strict time limit of 35. 4.Parents can search phone if wished. 5. It can be suspended until further notice as punishment. PS: I have found that Instagram is much safer than Facebook and SnapChat.
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